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kittehkats

“Cats are cold, detached & unloving.”

“Cats are not loyal.”

“A cat will not greet you at the door.”

“You can not train a cat”

“Cats aren’t that smart.”

“Cats aren’t that good with children.”

“Cats don’t miss you when you’re gone.”

“Cats don’t comfort you when you’re feeling down.”

What a load of crap !!! One thing for certain… cats don’t give a rat’s ass what B.S. you tell about them. They refuse to care less, either about what you think of them, or about the people they love.

mystisnykoto

“Cats don’t miss you when you’re gone” is a ton of bs. Whenever I leave to go anywhere, I can hear my cats meowing at the door within moments trying to find me. They sit in the window watching for me to come home and they are at the door to greet me almost every single time.

keelime-pies

Cats also grieve.
This cat watches a video of their owner who had passed away and he tries to cuddle up with the phone. The look on his face when they zoom in on him brings me to tears every time.

meepshavelayers

cats can be sassy too, i swap houses each week because my parents are divorced and whenever i come back, she gives me the silent treatment for a while, then after a bit shell be all over me

love this baby girl ❤❤❤

ninjamelissajulien

He cross him arms

In Regards to Minors in Kink

inhale-the-frost

This is kind of a response to a string of questions answered by @shay-gnar regarding why minors should stay out of 18+ spaces; I had started writing it as a reblog to the post but realized it was a bit too big and detailed.

****Now even though my blog is 18+ (and I cannot stress that enough) I am okay with minors reblogging ONLY THIS POST FROM ME FOR EDUCATIONAL AND INFORMATIVE REASONS.****

Okay kiddies, let’s get some truth going.

When I was 15 a guy who was 19 started hitting on me at work. I liked it. I wasn’t the most confident kid, I hated myself for so many reasons and what luck for this guy he just so happened to start hitting on me after a breakup. He said all the pretty words needed to make me fall for him, and I did. Really fucking hard. We started dating and after a bit I was convinced that we were going to get married.

Guess what he introduced me to? BDSM and Dom/sub relationships.

So after he knew I was his the abuse started. He started borrowing money from me saying he’d pay me back. He wouldn’t talk to me for days if I said something that upset him. He made me stop seeing my best friends, got unreasonably mad when I hung out with guys and isolated me from my family. He’d wildly accuse me of things and would yell at me until I admitted they were the truth; which they never were. I couldn’t even look both ways before crossing the street without him accusing me of checking out male joggers. When we had anal sex and I asked him to stop because it hurt he kept going, he raped me. He cheated on me with multiple women, and even though I knew it was happening I still made excuses for him.

I was 17 when I finally came to my senses and left him, but only after countless nights of crying, blaming myself, and thinking what I did wrong. Even to this day I sometimes catch myself asking why the fuck I wasn’t enough. After we broke up I came to my parents a few weeks later and told them I needed a therapist, a few months after that I was rushed to the hospital after I cut myself too deeply. I’ve been in therapy since, I’m 20 now.

I spent two years with this guy because he had worn me down so badly I thought no one else would ever like me. He was the best I would ever get. Don’t get me wrong people tried to help me the entire time, but I always made excuses for him because I loved him. I put up with so much bullshit because he made me believe in him and this fantasy life he could give me. I’m never going to get those years back; all I get are horrible nightmares, anxiety attacks, severe trust issues and traumatic memories.

He mentally and sexually abused me for years and I still carry the mental and physical scars he caused.

Most of my mental illnesses stem from the trauma and the toxic environment he caused.

I was young, I was stupid, I was easily manipulated.

So when we say we don’t want minors in kink for YOUR safety, we really fucking mean it.

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